Sunday, August 20, 2006

Dua for Anxiety and Grief

Salamu alaykum,

If you suffer from anxiety, grief, depression, then say this supplication with yakeen (certainty) that Allah will remove the distress from you. I say this one all the time and it works al hamdulilaah. 'Morbid' I want you to start saying this dua whenever you're feeling real down inshallah.

It was reported from ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No person suffers any anxiety or grief, and says the supplication below but Allaah will take away his sorrow and grief, and give him in their stead joy:

‘Allaahumma innee ‘abduka wa ibn ‘abdika wa ibn amatika, naasiyati bi yadika, maadin fiyya hukmuka, ‘adlun fiyya qadaa’uka, as’aluka bi kulli ismin huwa laka sammayta bihi nafsaka aw anzaltahu fi kitaabika aw ‘allamtahu ahadan min khalqika aw ista’tharta bihi fi ‘ilm il-ghaybi ‘andak an taj’ala al-Qur’aana rabee’ qalbi wa noor sadri wa jalaa’a huzni wa dhahaaba hammi (O Allaah, I am Your slave, son of Your slave, son of Your female slave, my forelock is in Your hand, Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just. I ask You by every Name belonging to You which You named Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of Your creation, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with You, that You make the Qur’aan the life of my heart and the light of my breast, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety)’ - but Allaah will take away his sorrow and grief, and give him in their stead joy.”(Ahmad 1/391 and Al-Albaanee declared it sahih.)

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Imam Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyya said about this dua in his book 'The Provisions of the Hereafter' that the verse, "Lord: I am Thy servant, whose father and mother are thy servants..." embodies the core of knowledge and recognition of Allah Almighty, and the secrets of worship, and no single book can ever detail their full meaning. Yet, this prayer is full of recognition of who is God, and in it, the worshipper calling upon His Lord, acknowledges his Creator, and presents himself as Allah's servant, and the son of His servants. The caller also places things where they belong by recognizing that his fate is in Allah's Hand; that his destiny is moving according to the divine plan; that Allah Almighty does whatever He pleases with it; that the servant can neither bring benefits nor harm to himself; that he cannot bring about his own birth, death, or resurrection; that his destiny is in Allah's Hand; that he has no power to alter it except as Allah wills; that he is totally dependent on his Creator, Cherisher, Sustainer, and Lord; that his own existence is subject to whatever Allah Almighty decrees; and that Allah is just, and what He wills shall be.

Imam Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyya then explains the next part of the dua: "My fate is in Thy Hand, and my destiny is moving according to Thy plan. Thou art indeed just in Thy judgment..."This section of the prayer embodies two cardinal aspects which are the core of the doctrine of monotheism (Tawheed): (1) the first is the recognition and confirmation of fate, and that Allah's decree regarding His servant shall unfailingly come into force, and that the servant cannot escape it or repel it; and (2) the second aspect proclaims that Allah is just, that He does not oppress His servants, and that what He decrees is due by virtue of divine justice and knowledge of such needs. This is because injustice represents the need, ignorance, incompetence, weakness, and inferiority of an unjust person, and therefore, such attributes are not divine, and they cannot come from one who is omniscient, All-Knowing, wise, and has no needs. Hence, Allah's wisdom is operative wherever His will is ordained. Allah is rich beyond any need, and everything is poor and seeks its nourishment from Him. He is All-Wise, and there is not a single atom throughout the entire universes where His will is not operative. The absolute dependence of each and every cell in the entire creation, and their soliciting of their support and sustenance from the sole and only provider requires their gratitude. Hence gratitude (shukur) is rewarded with blessings and ingratitude (kufr) is rewarded with disapprobation and consequent punishment for the non repenting ones.

When the unrepenting and ungrateful disbelievers and idol worshipers threatened Allah's Prophet Hud, peace be upon him, to invoke the curse of their deities upon him, he replied: I call Allah to witness and you bear witness that I am innocent regarding what you ascribe as partners to Him. Therefore, scheme (Your worst) against me and grant me no respite. I put my trust in Allah, my Lord and your Lord. There is not a moving creature whose forelock is not (held firmly) in His Hand. My Lord is surely on a straight path, (Qur'an 11:54-56)--meaning that Allah's power which is unlimited and unrestrained is operative over all creatures, and no one can withstand His decree. He alone has the power to move them as He pleases, and He does so rightly, justly, wisely and mercifully.

In this prayer, the servants proclamation: "My destiny is moving according to Thy plan," means the same as 'There is not a moving creature whose forelock is not (held firmly) in His Hand,' and his saying: "Thou art indeed just in Thy judgment, " is also parallel to 'My lord is surely on a straight path.' Furthermore, Allah's Messenger (pbuh) calls in this prayer upon Allah's most holy Names and the divine attribute He proclaimed in His kingdom, revealed in a Book, taught to a privileged servant or kept as His sole secret, so that no angel of the nearest and most exalted status and no prophet or messenger has ever known to ask by it. Such invocation surpasses all supplications, and of all prayers is the dearest to Him, and most worthy of immediate reply, because it proves the servant's knowledge and recognition of his Lord.

Allah's messenger (pbuh) then prayed to Allah Almighty to make the glorious Qur'an the prime of his heart, meaning the spiritual food of his body, mind, and soul, and through it, to wash away, dispel, and cure his stresses, worries, and concerns, making it the one conclusive medicine that will extract illnesses, and restore the human being to his true status and balance. Hence, he asked his Lord to make the Qur'an the light of his soul that removes any corrosion that tarnishes his clarity and wisdom, and that polishes his heart. Such medicine works only if the patient is truthful in his asking for it, sincere in his trust in its effectiveness and uses it as prescribed by his physician. Hence, Allah willing the correct use of the medicine will certainly be followed by complete recovery, excellent health and vitality and Allah is the Supreme helper.


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About Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim Al-Jawziyya



His full name is Muhammad ibn Abi Bakr, son of Ayyoub, son of Sa'ad al-Zar'i, al-Dimashqi, patronymed as Abu 'Abdullaah Shamsu-Deen, and known as Ibn al-Qaqqim al-Jawziyaa. He was born in Damascus, Syria in 691 A.H. and he studied under his father who was the local attendant of al-Jawziyya school. He also studied under the great Imam and scholar Imam Taqiyyu-Deen Ahmad ibn Taimiyyah who kept him as his closest student and disciple, and Ibn Al-Qayyim later became his successor.

Ibn al-Qayyim catered to all the branches of Islamic sciences and was particularly known and commended for his commentaries on the Qur'an, hadiths, and fiqh.

9 Comments:

Blogger Morbid moon said...

why are we called 'slaves'? we are human beings.. his creator not slaves.. i can't accept the fact that we are his slaves.. can't we just be called his creation.. everything is so stupid.

7:24 AM  
Blogger Relief said...

Salamu alaykum,

When one thinks of slave of Allah or Abdullaah - one can also use the word servant of Allah, this basically means that we are here to worship or serve Allah by obeying his commands and following his orders which entails following the Qur'an and the sunnah. It is not a slave as one might use it in modern day times which has a negative meaning. It is not someone to beat or use for their work and not pay them. Allah is over his creation and He is Above His creation. We are in need of Allah's help and He is not in need of us. We are to strive to obey Allah as a good servant/slave of Allah should do and Allah gives us of his bounty. Without Allah we could not see, hear, taste, touch, anything, so we have a lot to be thankful for, so although we are servants/slaves of Allah, Allah gives us more than we could ever repay Him with. this is not the same relationship that a master and a slave would have in modern day times.

7:36 AM  
Blogger Morbid moon said...

in the first place.. we don't need him to create us.

i certaintly didn't ask to be born in this world.. because my parents did something intelligent thats how i got here.

since i'm here, might as well enjoy it right? i don't ask for much. all i want is care and love from somebody. in my case, no-one.

10:38 AM  
Blogger Relief said...

Morbid Moon,

Actually we do need Allah to create us. Do you think that your mom and dad were able to create you by themselves? Yes, we know human biology and how it is done but Allah is the one who determines who will have children and who will not. He determines when you will be born and when we will die. No one knows when they will die or when they will be born. I will send you some authentic hadith on the creation of man and how Allah creates man from a clot of congealed blood and the rest. You should realize that if Allah decreed that you were to not have any children, it wouldn't matter if you had relations with your spouse every day 10 times a day, you would not bring forth a child. There are some woman who do not get pregnant even with nothing medically wrong with them. Do you ever wonder why that is? And there are some who use birth control and still get pregnant? Do you wonder how that happens? We need Allah, Allah doesn't need us. Do you make salah 5 times a day? When we recite surah Fatihah every day in prayers we ask Allah to guide us, and help us. We need to ask Allah with certainty that Allah will and can provide.

Are your parents Muslim? If not, when did you convert to Islam? It sounds like you are very sad and lonely and need a friend. As your sister in Islam, I am your friend.

6:00 PM  
Blogger Relief said...

Vol 4, Book 54. Beginning Of Creation. Hadith 430.
Narrated By 'Abdullah bin Mus'ud : Allah's Apostle, the true and truly inspired said, "(The matter of the Creation of) a human being is put together in the womb of the mother in forty days, and then he becomes a clot of thick blood for a similar period, and then a piece of flesh for a similar period. Then Allah sends an angel who is ordered to write four things. He is ordered to write down his (i.e. the new creature's) deeds, his livelihood, his (date of) death, and whether he will be blessed or wretched (in religion). Then the soul is breathed into him. So, a man amongst you may do (good deeds till there is only a cubit between him and Paradise and then what has been written for him decides his behaviour and he starts doing (evil) deeds characteristic of the people of the (Hell) Fire. And similarly a man amongst you may do (evil) deeds till there is only a cubit between him and the (Hell) Fire, and then what has been written for him decides his behaviour, and he starts doing deeds characteristic of the people of Paradise."

6:56 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Morbid Moon,
I'm really sorry for the way your feeling. To be honest with you, I'm quite stressed and worried myslef, and have spent a lot of time crying recently. I actually searched for a Dua for anxiety and this page came up. I don't know what situation your in, or what kind of hardship your facing, I know it's hard sometimes, but please have faith in Allah's mercy, and make Dua. Remember that this life is a test, and try to think of those less fortunate then you. That is what I have been trying to do. Make dua for me and I will make dua for you InshAllah.
Your Sister 'S'

7:22 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

thanks im going to pray that my anxiety vanishes i stay up every night crying every night dealing with the anxiety i need allahs help deeply.

10:10 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You have to change your behaviour morbid .. what you do here .. will effect you on the day of judgement .. pray to Allah and ask for mercy .. may Allah forgive you

12:04 PM  
Blogger Umair said...

i was suffering from a very bad depression and i pray to Allah swt that no one suffers from it as it was really very bad. I would cry and my time wont pass then i came across this beautiful dua. Its truly a miracle. it acted to be an oxygen mask for me. whenever i felt down i recited this beautiful dua and at that very moment i felt so light.. OMG JAZAKALLAH for posting it ! :)
but let me tell you, you should have a firm belief in Allah's help and guidance and when yuh recite this dua go over the meaning too and think about what you just asked Allah for. remember Allah loves you more than you love yourself! :)
tc you all be blessed** :)

2:50 PM  

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